No, I've never had that experience. I mean from the time I was about six years old until today some 40+ years later, I could easily differentiate between "a bee, wasp, hornet, whatever they are called".
It sounds to me like you should turn off your computer and go outside once in a while. Experience nature. Experience life. Take off your diaper. And start paying attention in school. You have to be at least high school age (possibly older) and can't identify a yellow and black flying creature. Please.
But I do have to thank you for adding another question/qualifier to use when doing a job interview. If an applicant is unable to name what kind of "bee, wasp, hornet, whatever they are called" I have in a jar, they're too stupid to work for me.
Oh yeah, tactics. The next time that happens, try this. Smash it with your hand, it's a freakin' bug. Moron.